Reader Question:
This actually is the second time my personal girlfriend and I have broken up because of feelings for another man. After seeing a note between her and a friend, I discovered she’s powerful feelings on her man buddy. She stated she believes she is just with myself because she understands she does not have chances with him.
Perform I dismiss this problem and desire she seems to lose feelings for her buddy, or do we move forward?
-Andrew (New Jersey)
Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Answer:
Dear Andrew,
If you value something, set it complimentary. If it comes home to you personally and makes use of you as a doormat, secure the door.
This is the 2nd time she has dropped for the next man while getting along with you. That has to hurt. But dangling within, wanting she’s going to fall more deeply committed to you, is a prescription for disaster.
Because it looks she’s generally interested in men and women she does not have the possibility with, why not make yourself more desirable and never actually ever give her another chance to you.
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